Today at the office, we got a mail from a confused man who reportedly find himself in the middle of confusion about him having a son outside and his pregnant fiancess did not know anything about it.
According to him, he had the son before meeting the lady and they’ve been dating for almost 7 years now.
Read what he wrote below:-
I really need your advises. I have a son who is almost 7 years old and I have a six years relationship leading to marriage. My fiancee is
Pregnant for me and I have never told her have a son.I know I have been selfish and wicked with this but today, I thought I am doing myself more harm than good. I had the child out of wedlock, I denied paternity of the child at first but later on, I thought about it and called the girl up then apologized to my baby mama and she accepted. After few months I went to study in ghana and that was how I met my new fiancee.
She was my dream girl but at first I thought she was a girl I could just have for myself but she later turned out to be a good house
Wife material. I was always forcing her to let me get down to the main thing as a sharp guy that I thought was.She was always telling me she was a virgin but as a sharp nigerian guy that I am, I was thinking a bayelsa girl was trying to use an outdated lagos style for me so kept on
Pressing on. And my friends were always fighting me for being too slow on her.I shut them down and told them to stay out of my business that I know what I am doing. This was because I was falling in love with her gradually because of her way of life.
She is calm, reserved, god fearing, she doesn’t demand and this got me puzzled for a moment cause I am the type that spends for girls regardless of what I want from them.
She is very honest, intelligent, she talks more of growing with me rather than the past or the present. She was always pushing me for great things, prayerful and others.
I’m not trying to tell you all these because of what I did but to let you know how satisfied I am having her as a lover.They said I was falling in love but I told them no, that I knew what was going on. Finally I had my way and I confirmed she was saying the truth all these while. I remained true to her all these while and we remained real and true in the relationship till now.
We were always talking about different things byut I never for once talked about me having a son out there. Right now she is pregnant for me and she has been in my house since my parents like her and they are also aware of the fact that I’ve not told her that I have a son out there. Im so confused right now.
Should I wait till she gives birth to the child before telling her.
I will really appreciate your sincere advice.
So guys, only your advice can get this man out of the confusion ocean.
Kindly drop your advice in the comment
Thanks
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